从两个表中获取数据的查询

Question

我有两张桌子

用户表

有

id fname lname
1  asdf  fdg
2  asd2  ddf 
3  xsss  ss
4  frfr  dd 
5  dede  dd

以及在用户关联表中

user1 associateduser
1      2
1      3

我希望从不应该包括user1及其关联用户的user表中选择id、fname、lname。

Answer 1

也许是这样的：

SELECT
    id,
    fname,
    lname
FROM
    user
WHERE NOT EXISTS
    (
        SELECT
            NULL
        FROM
            userassociation
        WHERE
            userassociation.user1=user.id
            AND userassociation.associateduser=user.id
    )

Answer 2

select id,fname,lname from `user`
where id not in (select user1 as u 
                 from userassociation 
                 union 
                 select associateduser as u 
                 from userassociation)